What is my career?

                                              

·                                   Nowadays, things have changed so much and are continuing to do so. We are in a technological advanced society. This has led to the diversification of the jobs that were once basic and the appearance of new ones that have never existed. Despite this fact many of us still with uneasiness within ourselves. Otherwise you wouldn’t have been looking this on the web. To tell you the truth you’re very lucky to have listened to the voice that is bugging you inside which is making you feel uncomfortable.
·                     Some people indeed find their voice go well with jobs that are available on the market. But sadly most follow the previous groups by neglecting their own voices. The ones that deviate them from their voice may do it knowingly or unknowingly, but still they are going to make them feel they’re not special and they will live just like others. But still an even smaller group of people stop thinking for a while and observe themselves and the society. These people may either forget thinking about it or sink to a deep thought of knowing who they are and who they are meant to be. If you are one of those who is always trying to find more about yourself (or at least try to do that) then you believe you are special and believe you have something special (like me!) then that is your goal.
·                                       After a long tiresome run of trial and error we find it at last!  We get a little fact about ourselves. It can be anything from instincts to experiences we had, but still its part of us. It seems that from now on the road will lead to a happy ending…, but it won’t. Wait a minute there, isn’t visualizing “what you want to be” and “what you are” the ultimate goal? Well yes, but sometimes we may not find it as satisfying as we want it to be.
Let’s take an example to understand. 
-         A girl in a poor country dreams to have a country that’s free of rubbish. She wants to see green meadows and clean streams here and there and wild animals free to enjoy nature. This and similar pictures are what many people have in their minds of Mother Nature. Assuming she has just finished high-school and is about to choose the discipline she is going to learn in. Seems like a tough moment right? Let’s pause here and go back two weeks. It may be in an apartment with her families and friends discussing on the same issue. All of them may be trying to push her to choose to be a Doctor or a Lawyer or any other well paying job. Now this girl is under a lot of pressure and may finally come to think “my family and friends are right. I must live to earn money. Why even bother for such a stupid country any way”. After reading this little scenario of ours we can easily detect that she has been influenced to such an extent to change the career of her life. I’m also sure you have noticed that the term money had the biggest impact of all. When we come to our point we can see that many of us have a hard time trying to understand what we should be. You can actually stop thinking, listen to one of your friends of becoming rich and live the so called "an awesome life" OR maybe you ask people that share your interests and practice them either through your job or as an amateur and live a calm life. The choices never end but what differentiates the choices so much is in what way people interpret success. It might be financial, family, psychological, social, national, international etc. Even money itself can be classified into so many d/t kind of groups (depending on the amount and how to use it). To finalize everything, it’s best to look in terms of yourself not in others. It doesn’t mean to close yourself from others comments which can be constructive and are worth to be listened. There are so many people out there that are sad because they neglected their voices. It’s too bad to see all these people when they can be happy. Everyone deserves to be happy and it’s what we all run after whether we like it or not. I’ll try to write a post on how to be happy and you can be sure to see it on my blog soon. If you have any comments or questions whether it’s about the blog or any other related questions please leave them below.





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