4 ways to be a mentally Independent person.

              

              Being mentally independent is the start of all types of independence. Be it financial, social,emotional…. Therefore clearing the mind first before any step; major or minor is crucial so I thought it will be great to write on how to simply make our mind at its best efficiency for us.

1.    Hope, don’t regret.

          Hope is the only reason we human beings live for. Being a rational animal has its drawbacks. First, we are adjusted to look back to what we have lost in the past. We spend our precious time trying to figure out if it wasn’t for that thing or the other that came before it.

         Just to remind you of what effects it has in our lives – IT DOESN’T MATTER! True, it may be the reason that some people are acting towards us. But don’t be like them. They’re people who live in the past. 
        They can actually be there in both good times and bad. Think about this for example. We find ourselves among others in a difficult situation. When we find out that we’re the only person able to get them out of the situation, we’ll be likely to give them our assistance, and some may misunderstand us and take it the wrong way. May be they saw that we’re super rich or had some power over others whatsoever but we aren’t that kind of person in their heads. So due to this reasons, they will act as if they are our friends. 

      But everything won’t last the way we want and so when we need help, they give us their backs. And so came the famous Quote

    “A friend in need

            is a friend indeed!”      proverb

        People pass through this kind of scenarios all the time. They’re heartbroken because the ones they had trusted betrayed them. Betrayal is surely an ugly crime towards any kind of person, strong or weak.
       
       But just then, during times of despair, HOPE. Hope that things will turn out for the better will change the atmosphere around us. If we are lucky enough we may have a friend to help us out and even if we don’t, changing our state of mind from depressed to glad may lead us to meet an unexpected person in our life.

2.   Everything happens for a reason, so move on.

           Starting from our families and to the ignorance of unkind people, things happen for a reason. They are either to teach us a lesson or perhaps test our endurance.
          
            Don’t fear things that maybe new to you. Try to understand them in any way possible. Even you trying to read from this article is happening for a reason and you have to exploit your choice by thinking that good things will happen and trust me they will, one way or another.

3.   Take risks – when necessary.

             Even a baby trying to walk his first step has to take the risk of falling. And if a baby is daring enough, then why aren’t we?!

Of course we shouldn’t be taking risks all the time but we should take them when necessary and they also should have a good chance of success (but not always).

            Taking risk is in fact contradictory. If you’re taking risk while your house or even worse your family is on the line, then the risk taking is too dangerous and even we are lucky enough to get what we want then our conscious won’t be clean. So we must make sure that nobody gets hurt in the process. 
            
            But if we’re taking risks while getting out of our comfort zones, then go on, try , fail and don’t forget to get up. Don’t let the fear of failing take over your mind.

4.   Try to find beauty around you.

           Before trying to do something or to get something you believe is beautiful. See what’s going around you. Being conscious about your surrounding has got big rewards. 
         
          By observing what’s around you, you will notice an unbelievable number of things going on. It can be about plants, animals, climate, people, stars …, anything you could ever imagine. 
         
          Even if what you first wanted may not succeed and you are miserable, just be strong enough to see around and you never know, you may find something that you might want to pursue your whole life.

         Have any more suggestions, ideas or comment that can be added on the next update, you’re more than welcome. Be free to ask any questions and of course

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